Aimee Harlow has dedicated herself to supporting Oklahoma non-profit organizations. She is currently vice chair of the executive committee for Allied Arts and board secretary for Oklahoma Contemporary Arts Center. Harlow has volunteered for the Oklahoma City Ballet, the American Heart Association, Urban Mission, Myriad Botanical Garden, the Junior League of Oklahoma City, Westminster School in Oklahoma City, Pi Beta Phi, Oklahoma City Philharmonic, and Creative Oklahoma. She retired in 2019 from a thirty-three-year career in banking software consulting and sales. She and her husband, David, reside in Oklahoma City.